Yadda ake daina kula wanda baka son magana dashi

        A wasu loquta zaka/ki ga cewa akwai wadanda ba abinda sukayi maka/miki kuma babu wata mu’amala data taba hadaku amma jininku bai hadu ba, haka kurun baka sonsu. To ta yaya zaka/ki ji da irin wadannan mutane? Wadanne hanyoyi zaka/ki bi domin ganin cewa basu gane ka/kin tsane su ba, domin kai/ke kanki/ka baza aso ace sunsan hakan ba. To wannan abu ne mai sauqi idan ka/kin saka kanki.

1. Abu na farko da zaka/ki yi shine duk inda ka/kika san cewa zaku dinga haduwa dashi/ita to ka/ki guji zuwa irin wadannan wurare domin yawan haduwarku ma matsala ne. Koda ace ya/ta zo da niyyar zau yi hira ko magana, ya zama cewa amsoshin da ka/ki ke basu gajeruwar amsa ce. Misali, idan ya/ta ce ‘’ shin ka gane aikin da aka bamu a wurin aiki”? sai ka/ki ce “eh” amma tamabayi Ramatu zata fi iya maka/ki bayani.

2. Abu na biyu idan wannan mutumin mutum ne mai son musu ko jayayya a abubuwan rayuwa, to ka/ki guji yin hakan dashi idan ma ta kama, abu mafi sauqee shine ka/ki ja bakinki/ka ki shuru. Hakan zai saka zai dan dinga tsoron yima wasu abubuwan.

3. Bai dace ba kuma ace idan magana ta kama tsakaninku ka/ki ce baza ka/ki bashi hankalin ki/ka dari bisa dari ba domin kaji bayanin, hakan zai nuna mai cewa baka son sa, wanda zai saka ku shiga wata chakwakiyar kuma, idan ta kama dole sai kun hadu a wurin taron aiki ko wani taron daban to tsakaninka/ki dashi/ita gaisuwa ne kawai, koda sun tambayeka/ki wani abu kamar yadda na fada kada kaja abin yayi tsayi. Ka basu amsar data dace amma wacce bazata basu damar yin wata maganar ba.